Finally I have the time to post something. I have been waiting
to blog about this for quite some time now but I had a second thought about it,
whether want to or not because I do no want to hurt anybody. Well, I don’t care
about it anymore….this comes deep from my heart……………….
Recently I was entrusted to help a group of students (I do not want to mention
who and what they were doing) who were chosen to represent our school for an
International competition. I was involved with another teacher and we had to stay
back for almost every day. I had been going home 6 p.m. every day while preparing them for
the competition. Throughout the time with these students who think they are the best and smartest in
school I did notice that they do not have proper communication skill and the
worse of all they do not know how to respect the teachers( they have never greeted us with 'good morning' or 'thank you' teacher throughout the time we were with them). Although they were
only in lower form that does not give them the licence to behave in such ways.
Not only that throughout the period of preparation they were ridiculing us and argued for
almost everything we did for them. For them, we were just not good enough and
they refused to accept and do whatever we suggested. They had their own
boring ideas and they insisted that they were doing it
professionally. Fair enough!!! They lost the competition!!!!…all the other teams
did extremely well and there they came in with such a boring show which they
insisted to present. God is great!! I thought they have learnt their lesson.
But after the competition and when they finally reached home they did not even
say sorry or thank you!!!!!...not even a thank you after we stayed back and
guided them for two weeks!!! DAMN!!! Initially, I thought I was being too
sensitive and also a colleague had remarked earlier, 'this is how students of
today behave'. Silly me thought how outdated I was, you know, not keeping up
with the current trends! And the fact that this was only my second week in the school made me think I had probably not understood the culture well
enough and needed to be reeducated. And so I let the matter rest. However, a
few days later, another teacher who was with us throughout the training session
commented on the same thing that the students
never said 'thank you' to her and behaved as if she was a stranger! They did
the same thing to me wherever they saw me in school after the competition itself!!! And then more and more comments came. And I
thought I was alone...
Why is it so difficult
to say 'thank you'? even if the teacher was not your favourite, or you didn't
quite get along with the teacher, I am sure you must have learned something from
him or her. There's absolutely nothing wrong for a student to show appreciation
to her teachers. This should start from home they will only respect their teachers if their
parents do so.....
What has happened to good manners!!!? It doesn't cost you anything to say
'thank-you'.Well if you don’t, it
only shows your cocky and arrogant character…oh ya!!! there was this girl in this group
who shows a sour and rude face whenever we ask her to do something or if
we scold her for her wrong doings.
By the way after being
in this school for one month I find it that not all girls are like them…most
girls are so adorable and they show respect to each and every teachers in this
school .It was only that one group gave me a culture shock. However, If I were
to teach them in future I will definitely teach them a lesson on how to respect
teachers and elders that they will never forget till the end of their lives!!!!